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Everyone needs to adjust their work-life balance from time to time. Follow these tips to find a better equilibrium.
If balancing your professional and personal life feels like a daily battle, welcome to the club. You’re definitely not alone!
For many of us, work can become our number one priority. Unfortunately, that may happen at the cost of everything else. We want to succeed professionally, but when that becomes a primary focus, we may begin to lose sight of other priorities such as our health and our personal relationships.
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What is work-life balance?
Work-life balance can be hard to define. In an ideal world, it’s a state of equilibrium between a person’s professional and personal priorities. It’s also prioritizing your work time equally as much as time for your family, well-being, interests, health, and relationships.
What this balance looks like in reality is different from person to person. For some, work-life balance may mean the ability to stop working at four every day and spend the rest of the evening pursuing personal interests. For others, it may mean being able to work a flexible schedule in order to prioritize caregiving duties.
A good work-life balance simply means you have harmony in different areas of your life.
Why managing work-life balance is important
In an increasingly connected world of flexible work, where work and home boundaries easily blend, managing our work-life balance to the best of our abilities is especially important…and often difficult.
A balanced life allows you to enjoy and make the most of all aspects of your life—not just work. Your family, friends, hobbies, health, me-time, and any other priorities become equally important.
A truly balanced life will give you the flexibility to have a successful professional life, while still having the time and energy to focus on and enjoy your personal life.
5 positive effects of balancing work and personal life
Why does managing your work-life balance even matter? Here are five positive effects a balanced lifestyle can have:
1. Less stress
When you’re more intentional about your work and your personal time and find yourself achieving better harmony, you may feel less stressed overall. Creating more balance allows you to deal with your day-to-day stresses in a healthy way.
2. Lower risk of burnout
Feeling overworked can lead you to being emotionally exhausted and becoming detached from your work. Better balance between work and personal priorities lowers the risk of burnout caused by work-related stresses and pressures.
3. Increased productivity and creativity
Stress and burnout can start to have an impact on the quality of your work. A balanced approach to work, where you regularly switch off, can leave you feeling more refreshed and, ultimately, being more productive. Removing constant stress also creates space for new ideas and may lead to clear, more creative thinking.
4. Greater sense of well-being
Ultimately, a balanced life is often a healthier life. A better balance between work and life priorities can lead to greater life satisfaction and overall well-being. If and when you feel like you’re making time for all the things that matter to you, you may feel like you’re truly being more successful.
5. Higher retention rate
Balanced workers are happier workers. Research by Oxford University also found that happy workers are more productive.
Further, “workers that have difficulty spending time with their families or finding time for their social relationships are more likely to be emotionally tired. This fatigue, in turn, has an impact on their dissatisfaction with their job and an influence on their intention to leave the organization”, according to this report in the International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health.
Ultimately, if your organization actively encourages workers to strive for work-life balance, you will likely hold on to your workers for longer. After all, people rarely leave a job they’re happy at.
10 tips for improving your work-life balance
So now that you know why creating work-life balance is essential, let’s take a look at how you can work to achieve this. Below are some work-life balance techniques and tips to incorporate into your own life.
Doing everything on this list is a Herculean task. Don’t let any overachiever tendencies put even more pressure on you to seek perfection in work-life balance. Instead, work on incremental improvements. Every step you make toward better balance is a step in the right direction.
Pro tip: Don’t expect to be able to do all this at once!
1. Accept that it won’t be perfect
First things first—and this one is important, so pay attention—accept that your work-life balance won’t always be perfect. Remember, creating the perfect balance for your personal needs may not happen overnight. In fact, pursuing this complex goal is a work in progress for most people. Give yourself grace as you figure out what balance looks like for you and how you can get closer to achieving it in your personal and work life.
And, of course, even when you think you have everything figured out, there will always be days that are a little out of balance. Remind yourself that it’s OK. There is no perfect schedule. Tomorrow is a brand new day, with another opportunity to attempt work-life balance again.
2. Set your priorities
“The key is not to prioritize what’s on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities.”
– Stephen Covey
Start by making a list of your daily priorities—apart from work, of course. This also doesn’t mean making a list of chores you have to do at home. Often we prioritize our work and household chores, and then find ourselves with precious little time to do any of the things we actually enjoy doing. Think what you would like to include in each day. This could include family time, exercise, hobbies, good sleep, and anything else that matters to you. It’s time to start making time for these things. This way, you can make sure your work (and chores) gets done, but you also won’t lose sight of other aspects that make you feel balanced.
Being mindful of your priorities each day helps you set reasonable boundaries for yourself. You may have to change the way you do things and learn to let go (or reset) your own standards of perfection. Consider hiring help if it’s in your budget. You could try to spread chores across family members instead of trying to do it all yourself. Sometimes it’s a matter of becoming more organized and learning to manage your time better. Set up systems and processes at home (and work) that empower you to accomplish all your to-dos while still leaving time for other activities in your day. Incorporating a good balance of work and personal activities each day will definitely make you happier, and also help keep burnout at bay.
3. Play to your strengths and delegate other work
You don’t have to do it all. Really! Whether you’re a solopreneur or a manager, learn to do what you’re good at and delegate where you can.
Focus your attention on your strengths and delegate the remaining work to an expert. This also applies to your personal life. If you’re a parent working from home with your kids around, you don’t have to try to be the perfect worker and parent at the same time. Delegate the tasks you can.
4. Learn to say “no”
If you’re a people pleaser—like many of us are—you may find setting boundaries and saying no to something challenging, even uncomfortable. Declining a request for help can be especially hard if you feel like you may be letting your boss, colleague, or even a family member down.
However, if you genuinely want to create a more balanced lifestyle, you have to start making the most of the power of “no.” Every time you say yes to extra work, you’re likely saying no to family time. Conversely, every time you’re saying yes to a family member dropping in during work hours, you’re saying no to the most productive workday.
5. Focus on achieving results
People are action-oriented creatures. We complete one task and move on to the next one, easily getting caught up in always trying to do more.
You may get a false productivity high just because you’ve done a billion different things today. But how much of that work actually matters? Instead of focusing your energy on doing as much as you can every day, shift to focusing on valuable results. It’s not about working harder; it’s about doing work that creates maximum impact. This ties back to setting priorities.
6. Set your working hours and stick to them
Setting boundaries also means setting and communicating fixed work hours. This is especially important when you’re working remotely from home or if you’re a freelancer. It’s so easy just to work every waking hour when your computer is literally an arm’s length away.
Set your specific work hours. Having set hours will help you switch off at the end of the day. When you stick to those hours, any time outside of that is your personal time. If you have the flexibility to choose your work hours, let managers or clients know about your availability. However, occasionally working outside of your set hours won’t destroy your work-life balance attempts.
7. Schedule personal time in your calendar
Most of us have good intentions when it comes to our personal lives. We want to take more breaks, spend more time with our families, and maybe even pursue a hobby. But the reality is, we get caught up in work, and all those good intentions go out the window.
One way to prevent this is by firmly planning and scheduling personal time into your calendar. Take a look at the priorities we discussed at the start of this article. What are your daily “must-dos”? Think about how you’re going to fit these into your day.
You may have a hectic schedule, but ultimately managing your time is within your control. Making use of your calendar for personal time will help you intentionally create the balance you’re craving in your life.
8. Prioritize your physical and mental health
Make your health a priority. Start with something as simple as a daily walk or making the time to meditate. Set a timer to remind yourself to get up from your desk for a few minutes every hour.
Do whatever you need to do to suit your individual health needs. Eat healthy meals. Get enough sleep. Take a mental health day every once in a while. Don’t be afraid to call in sick on days you’re feeling rough. Being healthy will help you show up better at work and in your personal life.
9. Take vacations
The truth is vacations are important. They help us to refresh our minds, recharge our batteries, and come back with renewed energy and focus. A vacation doesn’t have to mean an expensive trip away. You can take a short staycation at home—as long as you promise to switch off! Taking a vacation will help you decompress and come back to work feeling mentally and physically recharged.
10. Don’t be afraid to unplug
Unplugging yourself every once in a while can help you reset. This important break allows your mind to stop being in a constant “doing” mode. Switch off from the daily stress and the constant barrage of notifications to allow space for creativity and ideas.
